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​Guilt
I stood staring at the scales in disbelief. I was in the Doctor’s office, weighing on the same scales I’ve stood on for five years. Somehow, in four weeks’ time, I had gained 17 pounds.
 
I was left in the exam room to deal with my demons. “You idiot! How could you have gained that much weight that fast?” “Your fifth-grade teacher told you that you would always be fat, because you can’t control yourself!” “Remember what Coach Hobbs said? He said you loved food more than football, and that if you loved football enough, you’d shed the extra pounds.” “Remember Dr. Smith? He told you years ago that you’d better start eating right, or you would be a really heavy man someday.”
 
I’m really good at guilt. Person after person, and scene after scene from my past all joined in chorus in that exam room: “you’ve always been fat, and you will always be fat!”
 
The only thing that ended the self-shaming was when the Doctor walked into the room. “Mr. Gilbert, we’ve messed up your medication. All that weight you’ve gained has got to be from that.” By the time I removed my shoes and socks, it was evident where all that extra weight was residing: in my feet and around my ankles. Fluid retention. It could all be fixed by changing me back to the medication they had discontinued. She reassured me that all my lab reports looked good. My diabetes remains well-controlled. It was just a medication change that didn’t go as planned.
 
I’ll say it again: I’m really good at guilt. It’s likely that you are, too. Voices from our past, and demons we see every time we look in the mirror try to convince us that we’re no good, and we’ll never be any good. Some carry guilt for past behaviors. Some carry guilt for past failures. Some carry guilt for not living up to their potential. Yet, the stain of guilt sticks out in our souls like black ink spilled on a white garment. We’re so good at messing up, and even better at reminding ourselves of how bad we are. “If anybody really knew how bad I am…”
 
The Bible doesn’t hide the reality of our wrongdoings, but it does offer the rest of the story. Jesus died on a Roman cross, a righteous, sinless man giving his life to pay my penalty. I don’t have to listen to the messages from my demons. Instead, I hear the words of a loving Savior, “All is forgiven.”
 
We’ve been singing these words each Sunday during Lent: No guilt in Life, no fear in death. This is the power of Christ in me.
 
It’s time to get off the guilt train. Fire your demons. Love your Savior. Then, you can love yourself. No guilt. No guilt. No guilt.
 
Welcome to worship. What we do here matters.
 

Return on Investments

9/26/2018

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Over twenty years ago, I stood up to preach and noticed an unfamiliar face sitting in the congregation.  He appeared to be around 70 years old, and some of our folks seemed to recognize him. At the end of the service, one of our long-time members brought him to me and introduced us.  He had grown up in our town, and his family had deep roots in the church.  After college, he had moved north to a large city, and had put down roots there.  However, he still considered our church to be his home, and the University across the street was his alma mater.
 
He wondered if he could see me the next day, and of course, I was happy to set a meeting time.  He wanted to talk about our campus ministry.  He had heard that we were having chapel services on campus, and he was really excited to know that his church was reaching out to his school.  After a long conversation about the campus ministry, he asked me if we needed anything.  I explained that we had just received a sizable grant from both the District and the Conference, and that for the time being, we were in good shape.
 
A few months later, we were dreaming bigger dreams.  We wondered about enlarging our outreach and offering more ministry to the university community.  What began to formulate was a vision of a campus chaplaincy, provided by the church and supported by the university.
 
The next time my out-of-town visitor stopped by, he asked again if I needed anything.  At that point, I laid out the vision of an expanded campus ministry to him.  He liked the vision.  “How much do you need to fund this?” he asked. 
 
“$100,000,” I said.
 
He didn’t flinch.  He sat and thought for a moment, then said, “Let me get back to you on that.” A few days later, he showed up with a check.  Not for $100,00, but still for a substantial sum.  And every time I saw him, he brought more money with him.
 
When he died, he still had not given the full amount, but he had funded a ministry that, a generation later, still impacts college students for Christ.  It turns out he knew he was dying, but he wanted to see that a ministry he loved would continue even after his death.  He invested in the future of Christ’s Kingdom.
 
Today, we talk about Hannah.  She, too, invested in the work of God.  We’ll talk about this today.
 
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